Wednesday, July 28, 2010

about love and other things

Nobody can tell you how long the love lasts. sometimes it's just a memory. sometimes it's a feeling so strong that it can cripple you. sometimes it's something that you have to let go. memories will stay. but what can you really do? can you fight harder and get it back. but the moment has passed, the time is gone and you're just getting old.

Sometimes I come across women who love more than their lovers. They travel across the oceans and come to be with them only so to prove that their love is greater, but more importantly so that their love can survive. But can it? Some are able to reignite thier relationships...but some aren't successful. Is it that only men can help make a relationship survive? What is a perfect relationship? Is it just mutual understanding, love, comfort? It has to be something more than that. Must be something that you desperately crave or....miss? Yes. Must be that. Must be that feeling where you desperately need to talk to the one you love, share the things you love to share, laugh about the jokes you've made and talk about those close to you..can be umpteen number of things that you've shared.

Sometimes, i wonder of all the past and all the people who made you feel special. there have been moments, but all these are meant to be memories for the future, when you're old and gray and look back at the youth you've lived, so carefree and loved, it'll all be worth it in the end.

But as you live this life, sometimes, give it a thought, how many people you've truly cared for, the way you've been loved and the way you love, it all really matters, every minute of now, maybe that thought can keep us warm.

at least it keeps me.


love,

v